Isithuthuthu
Nokuba uyathanda ukukhwela ucelomngeni lokuzonwabisa okanye intaba, ukuhamba ngebhayisikile ixesha elide kuya kuba nexesha lokudinwa, enyanisweni, "nawuphi na umdlalo uya kuba nexesha lokudinwa", kodwa indlela yokoyisa eli xesha lotyhafiso, lulwazi.
Abantu bayakwazi ukuthanda izinto ezintsha kodwa bayithiye endala
Umntu sisidalwa esithanda izinto ezintsha, ke kulula ukuba wonwabe xa uqala ukuchukunyiswa yibhayisikile, ngokungathi kuvulwe umhlaba omtsha. Kodwa indalo yomntu ikhohlakele, kuba izinto eziphindaphindayo ziya kuziva zibuhlungu, azinakuba nemincili. Baninzi abantu abanxibelelana nebhayisikile ukukhwela ngokungakhathali, bathathe imifanekiso kuyo yonke indawo ukuze babukele, bakhwele okwethutyana kodwa bazive bekruqukile, kungekudala kwikona yekhaya nangaphezulu kwemoto, ungothuki.
zama sinto eyahlukileyo
Ukoyisa ukudinwa, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukujonga indlela "yokukhwela", enezinto ezintathu: "indlela yebhayisekile", "ukukhwela ngamandla" kunye "nohamba nawe".
Indlela yokukhwela ibhayisikile:
Ukuba ungumkhweli webhayisikile oqhelekileyo, indlela yakho yendalo iya kuncitshiswa kwaye kube lula ukuyiphinda. Ndikucebisa ukuba uzobe isangqa kunye nomgama oyi-50 yeekhilomitha ejikeleze ikhaya lakho, kwaye uye kwi-intanethi ukufumana ukuba zeziphi iindlela zokukhwela kwisangqa, zeziphi izinto ezinomtsalane okanye ukutya okufanele ukutyelelwe. Okanye ubuze ngokuthe ngqo kwiqela okanye isangqa sabahlobo, ungakhwela iindlela ezahlukeneyo ukuze uqonde ubumnandi bebhayisikile.
Ukukhwela ngamandla:
Ukuba u-ascetic, uya kufuna ukwenza i-mileage yakho veki nganye, kodwa ukuba uyakruquka kwaye awukhweli, akukho sizathu soqeqesho, ke ukuba udiniwe emzimbeni nasengqondweni, kulungile ukuthatha ikhefu. Yenza umthambo kwaye utye into elungileyo ukutshintsha imood yakho.
Okhwela nawe:
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, abantu zizilwanyana zentlalo, kwaye kuhlala kuyinto enesidima ukuhlala wedwa ixesha elide, ke ndiyacebisa ukuba usebenzise ibhayisekile njengendlela yokwandisa isangqa sabahlobo bakho, kunokuba sisixhobo sokuzilolonga. Zama ukujoyina iqela lebhayisekile lendawo, uye kwivenkile yebhayisekile ukuze ufumane ingxoxo, ukujoyina ibhayisekile xa uhamba nomhlobo, njl.
（Iibhayisekile zinokukunceda utshintshe ubomi bakho.
Kufuneka ndenze ntoni ukuba andihlali kwaye andikhuthazi?
Ingxaki ibonakala inzima, kodwa isisombululo siyamangalisa ngokulula. Ayongxaki ukuba abantu abalunganga kunxibelelwano. Wonke umntu unemikhwa yakhe kunye nenkuthazo enokufunyanwa.
Ngaba mkhulu "akukho mandla" "ngokwasemzimbeni", ngelixa amandla eyimfuneko ngumthetho, ungazinika isifundo, kunzima nokuzilawula rhoqo ngeveki, kuya kufuneka uphume ixesha elifutshane, imizuzu engama-30, ukuba Iveki yonke inentonga yokuzivuza, nokuba sitye ukutya okumnandi, okanye sibukele imovie, zivumele ukuba uzive ngathi "yimizamo yokuvuna", ngale ndlela inokukhulisa umzimba, unokuzivumela ukuba ube namandla ngakumbi.
Ezi zilapha ngasentla zezinye zeengcebiso zokoyisa ukudinwa, endinethemba lokuba zingasetyenziswa njengesalathiso. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, i-e-bhayisekile ayifani nokubaleka, kufuneka nje izihlangu, utyalo mali lwangaphambili sisixa semali, mayibekwe kwikona yothuli imbi kakhulu.
Zeziphi ezinye iindlela onokoyisa ukudinwa ngenxa yokukhwela ibhayisikile? Wamkelekile ukuba uxoxe nathi kwicandelo lamagqabaza!